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Monday, January 13, 2014

Happy New Year 2014

Despite my best intentions for an annual letter, I am left with reporting all that has happened in the last few years, a formidable task for an aging memory.  So, here’s what’s going on now, at least from my limited point of view.

Francois graduated from Plymouth State University in 2011 with a B.S. in Marketing.  He has become an avid bass guitar player and was in a rock band named “Acrida” for a while. We were happy when he got a day job as a Manager Trainee with Enterprise that summer. That job lasted two years until he was offered what he thought was a much sexier opportunity in NYC.  Big marketing firm, office with a view of the river, and a two-hour commute in each direction.  He is now back in Westchester working twenty minutes from the house.  Much better.

Caroline graduated SUNY Purchase with a B.F.A. in drawing and painting.  She has started working on a graphic novel and received third prize at the Annual Armonk Art Show last September.  She has landed a day job working as a framing consultant for A.I. Friedman's in Port Chester.  A graduate degree, a teaching certificate, and script writing have gone to the back burner for now.

Veronica is a junior at University at Buffalo.  She is pursuing a  double major in Media Design and Computer Science with a certificate in Game Studies.  

Matthew is a senior in high school.  He is an accomplished drummer, captain of his PF debate team, and an Intel STS semifinalist.  As of now, he is waiting to hear from colleges.  

Nicholas is in eighth grade.  Nicholas is a published author as we have collected his handwritten stories over many years and bound them in a single hardcover novel.  We expect to do a promotional tour soon.  A few years ago, he had to work on a composting project for his science class. He and his father created a 6 x 6 foot space in the backyard with tree logs where they dumped leaves, grass clippings, and vegetable scraps from the kitchen.  Now, that wonderful fresh compost will be added to Louis' new vegetable garden project this spring.  He wants to drop off the grid and grow our own food.  Lou still works at IBM.  The company keeps moving jobs to ChinaIndia, and Brazil.  It seems that we are expected to be on the company network both at work and at home, but everyone is happy to be working, so there is little complaining.  On the home front, the downstairs bathroom is currently taken apart and slowly being put back together.  In his spare time, Lou works on a scheme to beat the stock options market.
  
I am still working at the local public library.  I keep busy taking occasional trips to Canada, knitting and taking care of our small menagerie composed of four small fluffy animals.  On a sad note, our aging Collie, Lucky, passed away in the early morning hours of Monday, December 27, 2010.  He was surrounded by the people who loved him most, and we still miss him dearly.
So the stream of life continues on its winding journey.  Thank you for being part of my present and I hope your “now” finds you surrounded by joy and love.

Suzanne and family 

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Our Trip to France (Where We Actually Ended Up)

In October 2012, Lou and I traveled to France to celebrate our 25th anniversary. We arrived in Paris and then took a shuttle to Bordeaux to visit our friends Corinne and Guy. Upon our arrival, they both greeted us at the airport and proceeded to show us the city of Bordeaux.   Of course, Bordeaux is a historic region that gained great wealth producing and selling its wine, particularly to England.  The English and French endured centuries of history in this area including many wars and changes in political control. 
We stayed with Corinne and Guy in Bernos-Beaulac, a village near Bordeaux where coincidently Mitt Romney was involved in a fatal car accident while doing his missionary work there.

Next we visited the Pays Basque (Basque Country) including the sea resorts Biarritz and St. Jean de Luz.  The Basques are the indigenous people of Southwestern France and Northern Spain that sometimes have separatist leanings.  They have their own cuisine and the facades of their buildings are colored decoratively.

The next day we visited the vineyard village of St-Emilion and the Petrus winery. We bought a nice bottle of wine at St-Emilion, and I learned that the French wine culture included not only knowledge and taste for particular wines but also the memories of the people with whom the bottle is shared.  I thought it an interesting and cordial tradition.
We took the train to Paris were we stayed in a 200-square-foot, one room, six-flight walk-up apartment for about four days.  All that climbing was worth it because the front door of the building was across the Seine from Notre-Dame.  A walk along the Seine the next day brought us to the back door of the Louvre.
We visited the Louvre, the Champs, the Cathedrals of Mary Madeleine and Sainte-Chapelle, the Musee D’Orsay (with a fine impressionist collection and “Whistler’s Mother” in the attic), Montmartre, and Sacre Coeur.  However, we spent most of our time in Paris “flâner,” e.g., walking around various neighborhoods aimlessly with periodic interruptions at a number of cafes.
On one walk, we ended up on an inclining street that was lined with shoe stores, one more expensive than the next, until we got to the Prada at the top of the hill where you can get a pair of sneakers for bargain prices over $450.
We left Paris for the Normandy region.  Here, as in Brittany and other places, we found a common theme.  Most sites, especially the religious ones, were destroyed in the French Revolution and then again in WWII.  Of course, the war destroyed large parts of many of the cities in these regions, in particular Rouen, Caen, and Cherbourg.  Entrance fees from the tourists are used to renovate and maintain these sites.
This region is no stranger to war and strife. In the Rouen Cathedral, we saw the place where the heart of Richard the Lionheart, of Crusade fame, is purported to lie. The rest of him is scattered in other places.

Joan of Arc had a bad day or two in Rouen. She was tortured and burned at the stake there. Down the road in Bayeux, we viewed a 23o-foot-long, nine-century-old embroidery depicting the events ending in the Norman conquest of England at the Battle of Hastings. This changed English history and made ½ the words in the English language difficult to spell.
One of the high points of the trip was seeing the beaches where the WWII invasion took place. Before the invasion, the Germans controlled all the deep water ports in Europe, giving them complete control of the continent. The allies had to construct 3 deep water ports by towing concrete structures from England and sinking them off the coast in order to dock cargo ships to support the troops. After the invasion a hundred-year severity storm destroyed some of the constructions nearly causing the invasion to fail. Viewing the 50 miles of beaches and feeling the force of the wind from the sea impresses on the mind the ingenuity, bravery, and determination the allies mounted with thousands of ships along this coast.
Moving South down the coast we came upon Mont Saint-Michel, a city/cathedral/fortress surrounded by tidal water, now connected to the mainland by a causeway. The monks were able to travel to the mainland by foot at low tide but invaders were strongly discouraged from attacking the town by the up to 46 foot tides. It was a long climb we made to the top. The building stones were raised by a rope and large pulley connected to a large human “squirrel cage” driven by (let’s not call them slaves) people who were being compassionately re-educated in their religious beliefs.

We had the opportunity to sample Calvados, the famous apple brandy of the region. Frank enjoyed the bottle we brought back for him.   While I’m sure it was enjoyed by many a soldier/liberator as well, I was thinking of using it to clean my car radiator. 

We turned Southeast and headed to Loire Valley and the Dordogne Region.  On the way we visited the Chateau de Chenonceau on the River Cher.  During the 1500’s, King Henry II gave the Chateau to his mistress, Diane de Poitiers, a royal favorite and beauty of the time. (However, Henry’s wife, Catherine de Medici, did not share this view.)
Don’t be fooled by the Chateau’s “modest” entrance, there is at least a two-story part of the building that extends over the river in the back. Here, the privileged “1%” had lavish parties while the other 99% toiled in the kitchen or delivered game that was hoisted from boats on the river into the pantry below the party rooms.  After Henry’s death from a jousting wound, Catherine maneuvered Diane into comfortable exile and generally out of recorded history. Diane’s remains were not treated kindly during the French Revolution. 

We met up with our friends again in Sarlat. We stayed with Corinne’s mother and were treated to a gourmet dinner of foie gras from her kitchen.  The “foie” do their “gras-ing” near the walnut tree groves in the Dordogne Region where she lives.
We also visited the caves of Lascaux. The museum there had a reproduction of the 17,000-year-old cave art.   In a neighborhood nearby, we saw La Roque-Saint-Christophe, dwellings used by Neanderthal and Cro-Magnon man for over 50,000.  The vistas and a system of sentinels warned inhabitants of intruders coming from miles away.  No one is living there now.  The rents for rooms with a view are probably too high.

Well, when you get to the point where people you’re talking about are old enough to make you look young, it is time to stop. Thanks for taking the time to read my reminiscent screed.